Alex
Paro
LMFT
she/her
You’re here, and that’s a huge first step. Finding a non-judgemental, compassionate therapist to share your struggles with isn’t easy, I definitely understand that. Together we’ll tackle those struggles, your desires, your pain points. We’ll fight together within the confines of society to discover your authentic self and learn to share your magic outwardly. Let’s work together to find the relationships you want, the love you want, the sex, the job, the life that brings you joy.
I bring elements of feminist theory, social justice theory, attachment theory, and queer theory together with solution-based techniques to create a holistic approach to rewrite your story the way you want it to be. We’ll uncover what’s holding you back between the trauma, the systemic barriers, and the societal expectations. We can work together to unlearn what we’ve been taught and challenge the impacts of oppressive systems. While working for change at larger levels, we can create space for healing and empowerment on the personal level.
As a queer, non-monogamous, cis-gendered woman, I welcome the opportunity to talk about LGBTQIA+, open relationships, kink, and sexuality as whole with adult couples and individuals.
In addition to my work with adults, I also welcome the opportunity to work with adolescents who are seeking to find their spot in the world. Gender and sexuality concerns can be huge barriers to that childhood magic, and I love working with teens to help them discover their individual spark again.
You can find humor and warmth in my sessions, and I hope to disrupt how you think a typical therapist should be. Whether you’re an adolescent or an adult, the space we create together is unique and collaborative.
Some of my specializations include:
Adults (individuals and couples):
Sex therapy, kink/ BDSM, non-monoagmy, bisexuality (especially in straight passing relationships)
Body image, anti-diet, body and food concerns, fatness
Anxiety and depression
Neurodivergence
Self-identified weirdos
Relationships and dating
Self compassion
Adolescents:
Gender and sexuality issues
Self-identity concerns and identity exploration
Artists
Family conflict

Populations
Individuals, Couples, Alternative Relationship Structure (throuple, polycule, etc.), Teenagers (15-18 years), Young Adults (19-24 years), Adults (25-74 years)
FEES
I am not in-network with any insurance provider.
I offer a superbill for out of network reimbursement.
I offer a sliding scale fee.
Location
I offer sessions at the Alive Austin office and virtually.
Education
MA in Counseling from St. Edwards, 2021
BFA in Visual Communications from University of Delaware, 2014
Certifications
Certified Sex Therapist from Sexual Health Alliance, 2023
Gottman Level Training in progress, 2023
Favorite therapy books
Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin (Relationships)
Dirty Laundry by Rich Pink and Rox Emery (ADHD & Relationships)
Personal
Outside the therapy room, you can catch me dilly dallying around the kitchen conjuring up delicious vegetarian meals or decadent cakes, playing board games, dabbling in something creative, or doting on my two pups, Kiki and Moira Rose (who sometimes make an appearance in session!) I've been in Austin for about 10 years, and originally from Philadelphia so you might catch that Northeast bluntness.
Trainings
October 30, 2023: OCD Treatment Options
March 16-17, 2023: Race & Porn, Sex Work, and Parenting
October 21-22, 2022: Philosophy, Identity, Activism: Exploring Queer & Trans Sexualities
September 17-18, 2022: SHA’s 2nd Annual WYLD Weekend
June 2-4, 2022: AASECT 2022 Virtual Conference
May 21-22, 2022: More Than Two: Trailblazers in CNM Research & Education with Dr. Rhonda Balzarini, Ph.D
May 13-14, 2022: Sexually Attitude Reassessment
March 26-27, 2022: Sex, Cannabis, and other Psychedelics
Feb. 27-28, 2022: Keeping the Spark Alive
Nov. 12-13, 2021: Bodysex with Carlin Ross
Oct. 2-3, 2021: Out of Control Sexual Behavior with Michael Vigorito
August 7-9, 2021: WYLD with Dr. David Ley, Midori, Carlin Ross and 18 Student Presenters
May 22-23, 2021: Diverse Sex Positive Parenting with N. Jasmine Johnson, MSW, MA, LCSW and Special Guests
June 25-27, 2021: Getting Your Own Kink On with Midori
April 23-24, 2021: Kink for the Professional with Midori